When the Mind Won’t Settle | Rethinking ADHD Through the Lens of Trauma
The answer is not to collapse these two realities into one, or to suggest that ADHD is just trauma, or that trauma causes ADHD in any simple, causal sense. The relationship is more nuanced. It asks us to hold multiple truths at once: brains differ neurologically from birth, experience sculpts our wiring, and diagnosis can illuminate yet also obscure.
What Your Behavior Behind the Wheel Says About You
Driving offers far more of a psychological profile than we may initially think. Someone who is predominantly self-involved and does not naturally attune to others drives very differently from someone who is conscientious and relationally aware. The car, it turns out, is one of the most psychologically transparent environments we inhabit and most of us don’t even realize we’re being revealed.
Sneaky Smear Campaigns + DARVO | When Telling the Truth Makes You the Villain
There is a gut wrenching feeling when you discover someone has been systematically dismantling your reputation; not in response to anything you did, but preemptively, in anticipation of something true that you might one day say.
The Seduction of Mirroring | Why Self-Aware Women Are Often Most Vulnerable
Mirror neurons help explain why smart, self-aware, empathic women are most vulnerable to narcissistic relationships.
Achieve Everything. Feel Nothing. Sound Familiar?
Survival mode doesn't always look like someone falling apart. Sometimes it looks like the most capable person in the room.
If you've ever achieved everything and felt nothing, given endlessly while running on empty, or wondered why rest never actually restores you — this is for you.
Between Trigger + Truth | The All-Essential Pause
There is a vital space between what happens when we are triggered and what we do next. In any given scenario that is activating, a pause, determines whether we respond or react.
5 Ways Insecurity Presents as Anger or Judgement
At a core level, insecurity becomes anger or judgment when a person doesn’t have the capacity to feel vulnerability safely. Insecurity isn’t just a personal struggle anymore; it is a collective force.
Introversion · Intuition · Feeling · Judging
INFJ’s are the worlds rarest personality type.
INFJ’s are a very unique breed; with only about 1–2% of the population falling into this personality type. Their rarity is not just that they are a small fraction of the population — it is embodied in their complex and paradoxical nature.
10 Characteristics of an Empath
An empath is a deeply thoughtful person who is highly sensitive to the energy, emotions, and feelings of others.
An empath is like a sponge, deeply absorbing another’s emotional experience, often embodying it as if it is their own.
As a result of their heightened sensitivity, empaths are known to be very compassionate, understanding and nurturing towards all other living creatures — including animals and the natural world.
The Visceral Life of a Highly Sensitive Person
A highly sensitive person (HSP) is seen as an intuitive, empathetic, deep thinker; who is detailed & keenly aware of subtleties in their surroundings.
Highly sensitive people are drained from too much social stimuli. Large crowds, big gatherings & too much social activity can deplete a highly sensitive person.